Truckin' along...

Huge talk this weekend. When I say talk, I mean me talking, not him. He listened very attentively because he knew that's how he will dig his ass out of this mess, which HE created. After I talked and he agreed to everything I said, we are once again back on good grounds. Men please take note, when u F*ck up, just shut up and listen to her telling you how much of a jack-a** you are, nod and say "yes dear" and the world will be at peace once again. That is until the next time u f*ck up, which is bound to happen, u can count on it!

Ah, the wonderful world of communication, it doesn't work unless feelings are hurt and egos are bashed. Yeah, well, such is life.

Ah-Ha!!!

I got my ah-ha moment this weekend and it wasn't pretty. Confirmed all my doubts but at the same time, it did not feel settling. Instead, it felt very very very sad to say to my gut, u are soooo right, we knew it didn't we? After much hoo-ha's and rambling about misunderstandings, we are still a work in progress.

How does this whole communication thing work? I don't get it, when I'm opening up and being upfront about things i get my hand slapped??? But when u say u "misunderstood" the definition of the word, its ok. I should be happy you told me and just accept the fact that u mis-interpetated and lets let by gones be by gones and move on....HA...yeah right. Yes, I stew on things, that's ME. Letting things go is not one of my strong points. I like to stew on things and then talk the living sh*t out of it until I can't stand to hear it no more, then I will push it to the back of my mind and not think about it until I get the next opportunity to bring it back up and throw it in your face. Yes, that is SOOOO me =)